Which of the following is an example of a relating statement?

• A. I can remember a time when I felt no purpose and was able to get support to realize my potential.
• B. That is not uncommon; dont worry about it, many people feel the way you do.
• C. I understand.
• D. Let's talk about your gifts.

Answer: (D)

Relating statements connect with what the client is experiencing by focusing on their strengths and inviting participation, rather than just giving quick reassurance or sharing your own story. The statement “Let’s talk about your gifts” best demonstrates this because it shifts the conversation to the client’s positive attributes and capacity, inviting them to discuss and recognize their own resources. That kind of invitation builds rapport and shows you relate to them through a strengths-based lens. The other options either share a personal experience, offer generic reassurance, or simply acknowledge understanding without inviting the client to engage around their own strengths, so they don’t foster the same level of connection.