True or False: If a person does not want to discuss quitting their drug use there is nothing you can do to help them until they are good and ready.

• A. True
• B. False
• C. Not sure
• D. It depends

Answer: (B)

Not ready to discuss quitting doesn’t mean there’s nothing you can do to help. In peer support work, the emphasis is on meeting the person where they are, building trust, and offering support that respects their choices. You can make a difference even if quitting isn’t on the table yet by listening actively, validating their concerns, and staying nonjudgmental. This approach reduces shame and resistance and keeps the door open for change when they’re ready.

You can provide information about options without pressure, including harm-reduction ideas and safety planning. Connect them with resources or treatment if and when they want to pursue them, but avoid steering or insisting on a quit conversation. Use reflective listening to understand their goals and what makes quitting feel daunting, and ask open-ended questions to explore priorities and barriers. Help them set small, achievable steps or focus on broader well-being and support networks.

Remember, change often occurs in stages. By meeting them where they are and offering steady, nonjudgmental support, you increase the chance they’ll consider quitting when they’re ready.